Sweet Thirty Six

Have you ever heard of a Watermelon Rose Cake?

I haven’t.

When a former colleague told me that she and her fiancé wanted to make one for me on my birthday… I couldn’t say no. You might remember I previously wrote an embarrassing list of birthday gifts I’d like to receive. I mentioned that experiences trump actual gifts. I love uniqueness. I love new experiences.

Well, here it is. A watermelon rose cake! Baked by the two lovely ladies of My Bake Shoppe.

I can double confirm plus chop that this cake was devoured within a minute by myself, my housemates, and two guests. I don’t have a clue how it was possibly made. How can one plant the juiciest slices of watermelon within the inner layers of this cake… and NOT crush the delicate watermelon. It’s not too sweet, not too sour… it’s like April 25. A perfect date. It has strawberries. It has bits of rose petals. It has pistachios for some added crunch. It’s made with LOVE.

I had picked it up at Jo and Co’s void deck together with my other former colleague, Ge. Ge is my neighbour here in Pasir Ris Grove. So she picked me up so we could both collect our watermelon rose cakes.

As a bonus, I got to see Jo and Co’s dog Fendi. ❤

I can’t thank you both enough for the cake. I highly recommend it to friends who want to try an icy dessert treat!


That same afternoon I invited two good gay friends to join me for a prayer circle a simple pre-birthday celebration. The pandemic protocol at the moment is to limit house guests to two.

I didn’t want to trouble my housemate-chefs to cook. But I couldn’t help it. Bother them I did.


What is a Filipino birthday gathering without lumpia? Housemate D also prepared his signature belly-chon, pork sisig, and leche flan. Housemate G added aglio olio pasta. PJ helped tremendously with preparation, the canapés (these were bacon-wrapped mushrooms, fried chicken)… and of course the lumpia.

Guests J and G brought apple cider and pink Magnum ice cream. J brought Mario Party too. G gave me a bag of my favourite Famous Amos chocolate chip cookies.

I love Mario Party btw. Oh, to be 16 again… far from the need to adulting.

We played several rounds of Mario Party before I had to understand I couldn’t kidnap my friends on a Sunday night. Like my housemates, they had work the next day. Adulting.

Happy to picture these two with plates of Filipino leche flan. I can’t think of the Singapore equivalent.

My housemates also gave me a chocolate cake from Awfully Chocolate. I can’t believe I’ve turned 36. It’s sinking in. It isn’t sinking in. I don’t know why the days, months, and years… are starting to blend into each other. Damay-damay na ‘to… also turning 36 this year is Lana Del Rey, Bruno Mars, Carly Rae Jepson, and Ciara. I’m a year older than Lady Gaga. I’m now twice the age of Olivia Rodrigo.

I didn’t want to move into August without catching up on pending stories from July. This birthday gathering preceded an entire week off from work. I’ll share my birthday staycation story next.

Thank you for the birthday greetings. ❤

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Get ready for LONGS! Let’s do this 3Q and 4Q!

There are still moments I’m wiping a layer of sweat off my face… “WHY AM I DOING THIS?!” lol making life harder for myself… almost wanting to cry. Ang hirap. Trying to keep up. Trying not to be the weakest link. The mission is to out-do myself kasi shet, let’s not be a slouch.

And then I look at the mirror after taking a shower each morning… and say f* yeah. I am one step closer to destroying my inhibitions. I am one step closer to being the best version of myself. This is the one life we have to live. So f* live IT.

Here are the upcoming activities I’m hoping to participate in.


  • PA Dragonboat Challenge (August 30)*


  • AustCham 10km Challenge (September 5)*


  • Singapore River Regatta 2015 (October 31 and November 1)*


  • SGX Bull Charge 2015 (November 13) – Company participation (I hope we join.)


  • Standard Chartered Marathon Singapore 2015 (December 6) – aiming for personal best 10km
  • Penang Pesta Dragon Boat Race in Malaysia (December 12 and 13)

 * – participation is the discretion of the team captains. EARN YOUR SPOT ON THE BOAT!

Birthday bowling with friends in Singapore

Two rounds of bowling before flying off to Manila.

N helped me plan a bowling party with some of my close friends in Singapore. He booked two lanes at Home Team NS – JOM at Balestier. LOL. Where on Earth is that? It’s a short walk from Toa Payoh MRT over the Whampoa Park Connector.

Thanks guys for coming over and having a great time bowling. 🙂

Ten last minute things to do before I turn 30

  • Watch a movie in the cinema by myself.
  • Invent something.
  • Buy myself a birthday gift I’ll really maximize.

My first bluetooth speakers! Bose SoundLink Mini II. Gift to myself.

  • Conveyor belt sushi.

Dunno why I was craving for this. Sushi Express at 313@Somerset.

  • Write an old friend.
  • Bake something with the new oven. (Not just reheat.)
  • Put $100 in safekeeping.
  • Throw away an entire box of things I don’t need.
  • Get drunk.
  • Write ten serious things I’d like to achieve in 5 and in 10 years.